Journey of a groom to be - Part 2

Assalamualaikum. Dan salam sejahtera pada yang membaca.

Very sorry readers. ive been away for so long, n now just got some time to share bout my experience.

Last night, while staying at Icha's n Yaya' s house, their Ibu asked,
"Arie, apa je yang Arie dah beli?"

N my A was , NOTHING KAK! !

Then what? For sure la 'kena bebel'.

"ampa ni memain betoi aih, nak kawen ke dak ni?"

Actually she was quite worried to see me very relaxed like nothing happening in my very near future. No preparation at all. Just leaving some of it to my dearest weds planner, n Mama.

Actually im also excited to 'see' that day come, its just that, i dont know where to start, especially when counting days that for me i still have plenty of time to prepare.

First of all. For ppl who had decided to 'upgrade', the date was so critical as this will be the due for all of the preparations. For me the date is like a title for our essays. We need it in order to do the assignment, to start everything. What we knw from the title is, whatever it is, the final answer are goin to be something bout our title.

The body of the essay is the preparations we made from the beginning. The better the preparation, the better the result. N conclusion is what we conclude the title n preparations. Whether it happen to be great, or another failure.

Failing to plan actually planning to fail. Got what i mean?

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Happy birthday lil Thichana

Happy birthday lil dearie Dyan Adra Khalisya.
May ALLAH bless you always. B a good girl, always put ALLAH at the first place, Rasulullah, then Ibu n Bapak. May ALLAH protect you always. Love you dear. Love you so much. ;)

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Journey of a groom-to-be

Assalamualaikum. Dan salam sejahtera pada yang membaca. 

Hye. Umm starting from today i will add up this slot to my blog sharing my every moment until my biggest day come. (that will definitely come soon, but i wont mention the date here, cause who knows right, i might not be there at that day, who knows 'i went up early than expected'). 

I hope this slot going to be the slot where i treasure every counted moment starting from today. 

First of all, i want to share bout choosing. 

Someone did ask me yesterday, "are most of Penangites come with that attitude? Have many options here and there, before choosing one"

Here is the place where i answered that Q. 

If we were talking bout picking one, there should be an option everywhere. You need have an options before finalising the option. For example, you have A, B C and D, then only you can pick one as the best between the best. Am i right? How can things be called as choosing when you dont have the options? Morever, the final answer for your decision might be the one who will forever be with you (Praying for that).

For me myself, my decision is ALLAH's decision. we choose to ask ALLAH, to pick which is the best between what we have in the surrounding. And alhamdulillah, ALLAH has giving HIS answer to our prayers. 

“Rasulullah saw mengajar para sahabatnya melakukan Istikhaarah didalam semua perkara, sebagaimana baginda mengajar mereka surah daripada Al-Quran, Baginda berkata : ‘Jika sesiapa dari kamu perihatin terhadap sesuatu keputusan dia hendak melakukannya, maka lakukan solat 2 rakaat yang bukan dari solat fardu, kemudian berkata : Ya Allah, Aku memohon sesuatu yang baik daripada engkau menurut Ilmu engkau, dan aku memohon dari Engkau limpah kelimpahan engkau yang Maha Agung. Sesungguhnya engaku sahajalah yang Maha Berkuasa dan aku tidak mempunyai apa-apa pengetahuan. Engkau yang mengetahui Perkara yang ghaib. ya Allah, jika pada pengetahuanMu perkara ini baik bagiku baik didunia dan diakhirat, teguhkanlah ia bagi ku, mudahkanlah bagiku, dan berkati ia bagi. Dan jika pada pengetahuanMu ia adalah sesuatu perkara yang buruk untukKu dan juga agamaku, kehidupanku dan kesudahanku, maka jauhilahKu daripadanya, dan pergantikanlah kepadaku apa yang baik, dan redhakan aku dengannya‘” – [Di riwayatkan oleh al-Bukhari #6841, al-Tirmidzi, Al-Nasaa'i, abu Daud, Ibn Majah dan Ahmad]

well, its not as easy as we think, so better ask ALLAH. cause HE knows better. 

p/s : this method is better be done, when we were still 'ding-dong' in choosing one, heart which already picked the answered normally will choose what we already have. well, chenta kan? when love love is all around, we tend to think of him/her so much. Then how can the answer be defined? Whatever it is, choose wisely.